Occasionally I write up information for one of my clients that seems it may appeal to a broader audience. This is one of those articles that I feel may have an interest for those who do spiritual counseling, those who have children - and those who ever were children themselves!
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At around 14 years of age both young women and men hit a point in their personal growth when they are boldly and innocently wide open to what life has to offer them.
There is a day they step forward into their life at the crossroads between childhood and adulthood, and everything changes. On this day, they stake out a claim in the world for themselves. Their attention turns fully towards the world outside of their childhood home and they ask, “Who am I in the world?” They turn and face the unknown, on this day, with complete and total confidence in their ability to live life in their own independent way.
In their innocence, they presume they can handle anything. They believe they know everything they need to succeed, and they believe in their own invincibility. They also believe completely in the wisdom of their peers.
As they boldly step into the world, they are bombarded by experiences that far out distance their knowledge and that of their peers. Life is not what they had anticipated. The scope of what they discover seems overwhelmingly immense. Some of their experiences are understood. Some are unfathomable. It is guaranteed that their lives will be touched in powerful ways physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.
They have no context to evaluate these new experiences, especially the past life connections which become a part of them in a flood of sensations. They will have no recall about the specifics of these past lives only the sensations which they will not be able to process. The past lives will create feelings and thoughts that will not make sense in the context of what they consciously know.
This is a time when worlds collide and the total spiritual experience of the adolescent’s Being-ness meets them on the road of life. Often times this creates tremendous confusion and suffering.
This point in a young person’s life will guide them for the rest of their life and hi-light the nature of the suffering they must travel through to meet their personal challenges.
If we as parents and counseling professionals could realize the full implications of this adolescent spiritual crossroads, the highest good could be served.
With blessings for deeper understanding and wellness, I wish you a good day.
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